Well, this is it. The OS Pages FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions) or Letters to the Site Owner. Because of all the emails I was getting, asking the same questions over and over, I figured this page might serve as a reference page for you all. If you have a question, I won't guarantee it will make it to this page, but I do guarantee it will be read. I also cannot guarantee a response back, but as most of my site friends know, I'm pretty good about that. Go ahead and Email me, with any questions you have!
(Q): Kellyn, I saw that you and Jason were once an "item" and that the sites had merged for awhile. But now you are over here with this WAY small site. What in the hell happened between you two? Divorce? New Lovers? What?
(A): I hate to start this whole thing out with this question, but I cannot begin to tell you how many of you think that Jason and I ever had a relationship. FIRST - we did *NOT*. We have only met once in person while I was in town (his town) visiting a friend. It was a fun time, we got along great and hey in case you hadn't figured it out yet (or haven't taken the time to read my blog in the past), JASON IS MARRIED. And at this point, I am very much attached to someone. SECOND - Jason and I were friends from the start. That's it. Business partners who came across each other because I was pushy and wanted access to his site for free. I submitted all kinds of work and that's how the friendship developed. See the next question for the details on what happened with the business partnership.
answer updated May 2005
(Q): Whoa! What happened between redzone and the original OS site? Why aren't they merged anymore and Kellyn why don't you ever show your face on any of the "other" sites anymore?
(A): This is probably my least favorite question, but again a VERY frequently asked one. And I don't blame you. For a long time it was difficult to talk about, because I knew it was my fault. So here's the story. The situation started with RZ. They wanted me to actually APPEAR in photos and video's so that my stories would be worth "more" to them. Yes, I would have been paid, however, I don't live near them, and it was a completely impractical request and the RZ site owner knew that when he asked it. I'd been very upfront.
The situation between Jason (OS) and myself terminated because of the situation with RZ. Jason was hosting on the RZ and when Jason's "partner" (yes that would be me) wouldn't cooperate with them, they let him go as well. So he started OS, we partnered, he still hosted on RZ too, I fucked up, here we are. So that's the story in a nutshell with most of the gritty details left out. I lost a lot of followers because of that whole situation, but it's all in the past and way too long ago for me to care about. So sorry, I wish to remain anonymous. I'll work on that.
(Q): Kellyn, what's your situation? Why do you do this site?
(A): Ha! I hate personal questions, but I'll answer it anyway. I am a divorced mom of a couple of kids, ages don't matter. I was dating someone for a long time who was interested in all of this, he cheated on me and I left him. Now I'm with someone new, who I am working on to get involved into this whole thing, but he's not catching on. Do I see anything down the line with him, I was hopeful, but if I'm honest... no. As to why I began this site originally, it was because it was truly a HUGE interest of mine. As hard as it is to admit, the fetish almost became an obsession for awhile, and it also got me through MANY lonely nights. Just ask any of my original followers who went through the end of my marriage and subsequent divorce with me - they know why I turned to all of this.
(Q): Kellyn - I'm 21 and my girlfriend's 19 and she told me a few days ago that she wanted me to spank her and then gave me her password to the site and your email address. What the hell is this all about? Who are you? And should I do this?
(A): How sweet - a newbie! First, welcome. Secondly, I know your gf VERY well, and YES you should do it! If she is unable to communicate openly about what she desires, I can assure you that anything you find here will probably suit her just fine. How do I know? Because she's been around for a couple of years (long before she legally should have!). She's a doll, and you two have been together long enough that it is important to follow each other's desires if you want to have a lasting relationship. I will not give relationship advice, because it's ironic coming from a divorcee who never really told her (now ex) husband what she wanted, but boy have I come a long way since then! So in closing - YES - do it! Email me more questions, and we'll go from there. (if you are wondering why this email was included, it's because this question is asked a lot, just in different ways. I figured just taking Brett's email and making it the "general" question, then it would be easiest to answer and get the point across to new users).
(Q): How come sometimes I cannot access certain videos?
(A): Does not apply anymore. No videos. :D
(Q): Kellyn - How come you never appear in anything?
(A): This is probably the *MOST* frequently asked question ever (or maybe one of the top 2)! This goes back to the RZ scenario. I am a mother. I am also divorced. Child custody issues are always in play. I am not comfortable risking losing my children over a ridiculous self satisfying fetish. That's the easy terms. Most laugh because my "face" wouldn't be seen in most pictures or videos. That's true actually. However, when you don't have a partner who knows what they are doing, video coverage and pictures look to amateurish for my taste. Just ask my 3 original members, they've seen pictures, they were up for 5 minutes one afternoon and I lost it and took them off. So it's really a matter of my comfort level, and until I can surpass that, it's always going to be an issue for me. Hope that helps you understand it better. I'm never going to say never, just ... not right now.
(Q): Are you and Jason still friends?
(A): Oh yuck - well yes and no. Unfortunately after he got married, his wife was uncomfortable with the whole site thing and so he backed off a lot and spent time with her. I just recently learned that OS is back in action. So if that's the case, either she decided she didn't care anymore, OR she really had the problem with me. Either way, I don't care. Jason and I will always belong in each other's heart (and not in a romantic way) but we helped each other through some pretty crappy times (at both ends), and he was my best friend in a lot of ways for a very long time. Sadly only laying eyes on him once was difficult to say the least. We live in two different worlds and I cannot comment on what our friendship is like now. Only that he knows I'm always here for him, and I know if push came to shove, he'd be there for me.
(Q): How long have you been interested in spanking stuff?
(A): I hate to admit this LOL The worst question - ok, honestly - I can recall when I was pretty young (I might even say 9 or 10) figuring out that the spankings didn't hurt that bad and that they actually made other things feel good. But as to when I really "noticed" and got into it - I was probably about 14 or 15. I sought out every TV show, book or reference to the whole spanking thing. Can you remember looking up the word spank in the dictionary? LOL I cannot tell you how many of us admit that now!
(Q): What's up with the MYSTERY D GUY!
(A): Gone. Period. We broke it off. He was cheating, I wasn't. We are not together. Do I miss him? All the time. Enough said.
(Q): Kellyn, If you have a man in your life, why are you not spanked for all your brattiness?
(A): Because for the first time I chose a man because I fell in love, and not because I wanted him to spank me. He talks a good talk, really. But he isn't as good with the follow through. Might be because we have kids, but when they are gone, he still doesn't. Occasionally he'll swat me in passing or something stupid like that, but not like my previous relationship. *sigh*
(Q): I heard that you are in the midst of writing some erotic fiction books or a series or something like that. Is this true?
(A): Yup. It is. More info later.
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