It makes my ass hot too.... I absolutely love that lack of control. Lack? Who am I kidding? It's a complete LOSS of control. Especially when someone knows what they are doing and does it right.

I'm not one of those girls though, that can be told to bend over because if anyone thinks I'm staying in position, yeah... I pretty much suck at that part. And I reach back... imagine that? I have found myself on more than one occasion with my hand held firmly in the spankers hand.

I also have a preference for over the knee. I'm not really sure what the reason for that is, why or when that started, but it is what it is.

As far as implements go, typically a hand or hairbrush. I've used plenty of other stuff. I don't mind a belt, but it has to be used lighter than normal. Unless I'm in trouble.

What's funny is - I look back at that last paragraph, and check out how much control I DO have and shouldn't have.... isn't it kind of up to the spanker, what, how and when it's applied?